Can Positive Affirmations Help You Avoid North Carolina Auto Accidents?

January 14, 2012, by Michael A. DeMayo

Are your current beliefs about driving putting you at risk for a North Carolina car accident?

If you recognize that your driving skills are rusty, below par, or inadequate for the challenges you face, it might behoove you to reflect on how you drive, why you drive, and how to drive better and safer.

As previously discussed, journaling offers many benefits. Drivers who want to understand their habits and opportunities for improvement can glean great insight simply by journaling before and after every road trip. (Yes, this can be annoying and time consuming. But the information you gain from the insights can save your life.)

Once you’ve developed some insights into your driving, and you want to change your behavior, how might you be able to go about doing that?

One possible route is through the use of repeated affirmations. For instance, you might collect 5 or 10 “new beliefs” you want to have about driving and then write those down on a piece of paper. Then, every morning when you wake up and every evening before you go to sleep, read those affirmations to yourself, and your subconscious will begin to internalize those thoughts.

Here are a few types of thoughts that you might include in an affirmation list:

1. I never use my cell phone (even a hands-free headset) when I drive. If I need to make a call, I pull over first.

2. When I drive, I focus on driving. I avoid letting my mind wander to other things.

3. I take care of my vehicle and ensure that all the components are safe and well maintained.

4. I educate myself about car accident prevention.

5. I avoid driving if I feel fatigued, or drunk, or medicated, or otherwise incapacitated.

The more you tailor your affirmations to your personal peccadilloes – driving mistakes that you often make and want to avoid – the more useful you may find this exercise to be.

If you need help with a specific legal question concerning a crash or injury, talk to a North Carolina auto accident law firm about how to obtain powerful results.

More Web Resources:

The Strategic Use of Affirmations

Keeping a Driving Journal

North Carolina Auto Accident Prevention: Should You Take Drivers Ed Again?

January 12, 2012, by Michael A. DeMayo

No one wants to be involved in a North Carolina car accident. But how far you willing to go to reduce your odds of disaster?

In today’s blog, we’re going to talk about an interesting, albeit speculative, idea for auto accident prevention.

It’s common sense to review driving fundamentals. So you think it would be common sense to review driving fundamentals regularly and periodically. But this kind of common sense is uncommonly practiced. Most Carolinians on the road today took drivers ed prior to getting their licenses. But very few people take drivers ed multiple times, unless they’re compelled to do so for legal reasons. (For instance, if you’re hit with a DUI charge, you might have to take drivers ed to regain your license.)

But there is a difference between what the law allows and what’s optimal for you to do, if you want to maximize your safety on the roads.

Think about other areas of your life. If you really want to memorize a set of practices, habits, and behaviors, you’ll spend serious time reflecting and reviewing on the key elements and principles. Surgeons, for instance, don’t “cram” and pull all-nighters to memorize specific surgical procedures and then never review those procedures again. They’re constantly analyzing surgical techniques, refining them, getting feedback from other professionals, etc. This makes sense since surgery is a matter of life and death.

Well, so is driving.

The National Highway Traffic and Safety Administration regularly publishes statistics on North Carolina car accidents (and car accidents throughout the nation). Believe it or not, over 40,000 people die every year on US highways and surface streets. So it is a matter of life and death. And given that the stakes are so high, it just makes sense to “immunize” yourself as much as possible from the dangers. That might mean adopting unconventional ways of thinking. In other words, it is not common practice for drivers to take refresher drivers ed courses voluntarily. But it’s kind of thinking as irrelevant. Of course, common sense dictates that adjust the driver to reflect on their habits, proclivities, and beliefs about driving safety – and who get with driving assistance – will be better suited to meet the haphazard and experiences you’re bound to encounter on Carolina roads.

For help with a specific accident or injury question, connect with a powerful and effective North Carolina car accident law firm.

More Web Resources:

North Carolina Drivers Education

Test Your Driving Knowledge

Good News on the North Carolina Car Accident Front: Justin Bieber’s Grandparents are Going to be Okay

January 6, 2012, by Michael A. DeMayo

Most North Carolina car accident news that we cover on this blog is, frankly, pretty depressing: reckless driving, driving under the influence of alcohol, driving on suspended or even stolen licenses, etc. So let’s start the New Year off on a more positive note and talk about a story of triumph over tragedy involving the grandparents of teen pop star Justin Bieber.

According to tabloid reports, the grandparents of the 17-year-old singer – Diane and Bruce Mallette – flipped into a ditch on November 28 and totaled their car. Bruce Mallette apparently suffered broken ribs, but both of Bieber’s grandparents survived what could have been a very ugly wreck. Incidentally, the singer had given his grandparents the 2011 Buick Encore that they flipped.

On a more sober note, however, the story reminds us that no amount of money or fame can protect us against North Carolina car, truck, and motorcycle accidents. The fact is that the roads can be a dangerous place, no matter who you are… or who your parents or grandchildren are. This doesn’t mean that you should feel terrified every time you get behind the wheel.

But do be mindful when you get behind the wheel. Driving is one of the most dangerous activities that most people do on a regular basis.

Vow to make 2012 a year of mindful driving. Consider not turning on the radio every time you’re in the car. Instead of chatting on your phone or even chatting with your fellow passengers, consider taking some trips in silence and focusing all of your energy on staying alert and present to road conditions. You can’t reduce the risk of accidents to zero, but you can make a significant, positive difference simply by taking precautions like keeping your car well maintained, avoiding driving during dangerous hours, and staying alert about your state of mind and level of fatigue.

If you or someone you love was hurt over the New Year’s accident, connect with a powerful and compassionate North Carolina car, truck, motorcycle accident law firm today.

More Web Resources:

Justin Bieber’s Grandparents Hurt in a Car Accident

The 2011 Buick Encore

Reckless Driver Causes North Carolina Car Accident on Market Street in New Hanover County

January 3, 2012, by Michael A. DeMayo

WECT is reporting on a scary but fortunately non-fatal North Carolina multi-car crash that disrupted traffic and shook the region last Friday afternoon.

A North Carolina Highway Patrol Trooper told WECT that “a woman driving a Suzuki crossed the central line on Market Street and caused a head-on collision. Three witnesses told officials the woman was driving recklessly, weaving in and out of lanes.” An Airlink helicopter was called in to transport the injured to New Hanover Regional Medical Center. The Suzuki’s driver sustained serious injuries. Two other people from a different car were taken by ambulance to the hospital. Unsurprisingly, Market Street’s traffic was gridlocked following the crash.

The Root Cause of Crashes Like This?

The calendar can dramatically impact the number of North Carolina car accidents. On certain holidays, such as Memorial Day, Super Bowl Sunday, 4th of July, and Veterans Day, accident rates spike because more revelers are on the road. The more people drink and party, the more accidents occur. It’s a pretty simple equation. So should we chalk up this reckless driving accident up to New Year’s Day jitters? After all, there is often a tremendous accident spike on New Year’s Eve. Everyone’s out drinking champagne and carousing and singing “Auld Lang Syne.” Put those drivers on the road – even in limited numbers – and you’re going to see accident spikes.

But it’s important to evaluate any accident within its very specific context. What we cannot assume from a news story, for instance, is that the reckless driver in the Suzuki had been partying or drinking. We can’t even presume that she was, in fact, driving recklessly. Perhaps her steering column malfunctioned, causing her to swerve in and out of lanes. In other words, this event is much like an iceberg that’s mostly underwater. We can only see the top part – the news story only allows you to see a little bit of the truth.

To fully understand what happened in an accident, you need the investigative power and prowess of a North Carolina car accident law firm.

More Web Resources:

More Car Crashes Happen on New Year’s Eve

New Hanover Car Crash Involving Reckless Suzuki Driver

North Carolina Bicycle Accident Prevention 101: Why Are You REALLY Not Wearing Your Bike Helmet?

November 18, 2011, by Michael A. DeMayo

If you, a family member, or a friend was recently seriously hurt in a North Carolina bicycle accident, and you or the other victim was not wearing your helmet, you likely will face contempt from would-be sympathetic family, friends, and colleagues.

No doubt, you are probably kicking yourself right now, wondering why you ever thought it would be wise or safe to bike without a safety helmet. In this blog post, we are going to bypass the typical recriminations and root out the fundamental reasons why you – or anyone – would hop on a bicycle without the proper safety gear.

Did you not understand the risks?

Perhaps you failed to understand WHY wearing a helmet is critical. Chances are, this was not the case. But if you do need a refresher on why helmet use is encouraged – and the dangers of failing to wear a bicycle helmet – please see the link at the bottom of this article.

If you knew biking without a helmet was dangerous, why did you do it?

This is the mission-critical question. Chances are, at least part of you knew that you should wear a helmet while biking. So here are some possible explanations:

• Perhaps you didn’t have a helmet.
• Perhaps you planned to go for a short bike ride – to a friend’s house in an adjoining neighborhood, for instance – and you figured that you didn’t really need one.
• Perhaps you wanted to “look cool” and impress your daredevil friends.
• Perhaps you have a medical condition that makes it very uncomfortable to wear a helmet.
• Perhaps you have a psychological fear of putting on your helmet.
• Perhaps your helmet was difficult to adjust or “figure out,” and you didn’t want to bother reading your manual or asking a friend to help you learn how to put it on.
• Perhaps you “spaced out” because you were concentrating on some other task, like delivering a paper, seeing a long lost friend, or simply “enjoying the day.”

Most North Carolina bike accident safety analysts would drill down as far as we’ve currently drilled down and then stop.

But that might be a mistake.

After all, even if the reason you didn’t wear a helmet was as simple as — “I just didn’t feel like wearing a helmet because the helmet I have is ugly and uncomfortable” — doesn’t mean you have exposed the ultimate cause of your reckless behavior. Unless you address that ultimate cause, you might put yourself at risk for future accidents and more injuries.

At the same time, you will likely need a creditable, reputable help from a North Carolina bike accident law firm to protect your rights and hold another driver or even the manufacturer of your bicycle or helmet responsible for damages.

More Web Resources:

Bike accident helmet statistics

Why don’t you wear a helmet?

The Root Cause of Your North Carolina Bike Accident: What’s the “Reason Behind the Reason” That You Failed to Wear Head Protection?

November 16, 2011, by Michael A. DeMayo

In Part 1 of our discussion on the root cause of North Carolina bicycle accidents, we discussed some of the superficial reasons why some bikers fail to wear proper head protection, including:

• “I didn’t know that not wearing a helmet was dangerous.”
• “My helmet is ugly/uncomfortable/weird looking/confusing to put on.”
• “I didn’t want to look like a dork in front my friends.”
• “I just plum forgot.”

And as we discussed earlier in the week, most analysts consider these explanations to be root causes. However, this kind of analysis probably fails to expose certain fundamental beliefs or bad behaviors that may put you and others at risk in the future – risk not only for other North Carolina bike accidents, but also for accidents and injuries that have nothing to do with biking.

So, let’s drill down.

Let’s take one of the “excuses” – “I didn’t want to look like a dork in front my friends” – and unpack it. Why might someone say this? Let’s ask a theoretical daredevil 14-year-old boy why he is afraid of “looking like a dork” in front of his friends.

Theoretical 14-year-old: “Because dorks don’t have friends.”

Questioner: “So, you felt embarrassed at the thought of wearing your helmet because you have a strong need for acceptance and friendship.”

Theoretical 14-year-old: “Pretty much, yeah.”

Through this exercise, you expose that the 14-year-old has a compelling need to be accepted amongst his peers. This fundamental drive – to be accepted by his peers – is not necessarily good or bad. It’s just strong. And since it is strong, it has a potential to drive the 14-year-old to do other risky things that have nothing to do with helmet use.

The solution, therefore, should focus on encouraging the teenager to meet his needs for acceptance and friendship in ways that don’t violate your need (as a parent or caregiver) to protect him from harming himself or others.

Once you have this frame of mind, you can devise the appropriate strategies. These strategies would not necessarily work for a biker who said, “I don’t want to use my helmet because my helmet was too tight.” In that case, some very different fundamental feelings, needs, and root causes would have to be addressed.

For powerful insights into your case, connect with a competent North Carolina bike accident law firm.

More Web Resources:

Drilling down to find the root cause of an accident.

Building strategies around feelings and needs instead of around blame and punishment.

How Much Does Chronic Stress Contribute to North Carolina Car Accidents?

November 11, 2011, by Michael A. DeMayo

Modern life is tough. Stresses abound, even for the relatively affluent here in North Carolina, due to the tumultuous economy. Do these stresses contribute to North Carolina car accidents? If so, how much do they contribute, and what can we do about the problem?

First, let’s dissect the issue before we embark on the more complicated task of “fixing” things.

When most safety analysts examine the “etiology” of North Carolina car accidents, they focus on relatively proximate factors. For instance, you might focus on whether the driver had been drinking alcohol, whether the car was well maintained, whether the roads were correctly engineered and the signage up-to-date, etc.

But rarely do analysts examine the more global, chronic factors that might be at play, at least in part, in many accidents. Chronic stress might be one of these. Here is the thinking. When drivers experience chronic stress, they fail to respond quickly to new situations. Reaction time is slow. One’s ability to “see other drivers as human,” the theme that traffic expert Tom Vanderbilt often comes back to in his work, diminishes.

Chronic stress may also lead people to embark on destructive behaviors or activities that further impair their ability to drive. For instance, drivers may smoke, consume alcohol, take antidepressant medications, drive while angry, drive while distracted on a cell phone, etc. Obviously, this thinking is somewhat speculative. To really establish a causal link between chronic stress and North Carolina car accidents, you would have to do some serious investigation. However, it is grist for the mill.

If we can assume that chronic stress does cause or at least contribute to crashes, then accident prevention experts should immediately ask themselves: How could we collectively better manage stress?

Stress management is an enormously broad topic. However, researchers like Jon Kabat Zinn (who is famous for his “mindfulness-based stress reduction program”) suggest that the attenuation of our attention can be fixed through the use of meditation, introspection, rest, and better nutrition. Reducing our chronic stress can, in turn, lower accident rates.

Call a North Carolina car accident law firm if you have questions or concerns about a matter.

More Web Resources:

John Kabat Zinn and mindfulness-based stress reduction.

Chronic stress dangers.

Are You Reading Too Much Into Your North Carolina Car Accident?

November 9, 2011, by Michael A. DeMayo

If you or a family member has recently been victimized in a North Carolina car, motorcycle, or truck accident, you are likely committed to “seeing justice done” and getting fair compensation. These are laudable goals.

However, in our rush to hold others accountable for what happened, we can make errors of attribution (blaming the wrong person, company, or other factor), which can not only lead to unfair results (e.g. an innocent person being forced to pay hundreds of thousands of dollars for your injuries) but can also destroy a potentially good case against the truly negligent/careless party.

That’s all a little heady. So let’s break it down.

Think about a theoretical North Carolina truck accident. Say, as you were merging onto I-95, a trucker drifted into your lane and forced you off the road. Although you managed to stabilize your vehicle and prevent catastrophe, you and your family were shaken up, and you suffered severe whiplash, which may ultimately cost you tens of thousands of dollars in chiropractic bills and other medical care.

Your instinct might be to sue the trucker, the trucking company, or some other entity that might be responsible (e.g. an insurance company). You might be right. However, a more detailed investigation – conducted by an experienced North Carolina truck accident law firm, for instance – might reveal that the trucker behaved appropriately for the situation. The real cause of the crash had nothing to do with bad driving. It had to do with bad road design.

The highway was engineered in such a way that accidents like yours were relatively likely, given visibility conditions, signage posted, etc. In this case, the culpable party would be the authority that designed that section of the freeway.

It’s important to get these things right both to minimize unfairness and to minimize the chances that your case will be diminished or destroyed by new revelations.

To build a smart defense, connect with a North Carolina truck accident law firm today.

More Web Resources:

The danger of jumping to conclusions.

How to avoid rushing to judgment.

Tragic North Carolina Car Accident Claims Life of a Child on Go-Kart

November 6, 2011, by Michael A. DeMayo

Last Tuesday, 6-year-old boy from Duplin County was killed in a horrific North Carolina car accident on NC-111 in Chinquapin. The AP reports that the fatal North Carolina car accident occurred around 4 PM. According to the news report: “authorities’ said the boy was riding beside his older brother, who was driving a four-wheeler…the boy apparently didn’t see the oncoming vehicle and pulled out into the road.”http://www.northcarolinainjurylawyerblog.com/cgi-bin/mt.cgi?__mode=view&_type=entry&id=119145&blog_id=423

According to a local station, WITN, the 6-year-old, who attended Chinquapin Elementary School, was hit by the secretary of his school.

This horrendous tragedy strikes an emotional chord in anyone who has cared for young children. In many ways, this is every parent’s worst fear come true, and we can only hope that the family of the boy receives compassion, empathetic attention, and good healing.

Can the North Carolina car accident prevention community draw any lessons from this sad case?

Without probing into the details of what happened, it’s difficult to extrapolate. However, the report does highlight, once again, how tragedies can happen even under close adult scrutiny. Young children are constantly testing the limits of their physical environment, and they may not be fully aware of the risks inherent in their activities until too late.

While caretakers can (and probably should) do more to monitor children’s behavior and erect safe, protective areas for kids to play (without serious consequences), there are only so many strategies and tactics you can deploy to protect yourself against the chaos of life.

All that said, if you or someone your care about has been hurt in a North Carolina car accident, you may be able to avail yourself of powerful resources to get compensation for injuries, medical care, and more. A respectable and experienced North Carolina car crash law firm can help you understand your rights and what to do next.

More Web Resources:

6-year-old boy dies in a go-kart crash

Go-kart tragedy in Chinquapin

Fatal North Carolina Motorcycle Crash Takes Life of Father and Son – DWI Driver Suspected

November 3, 2011, by Michael A. DeMayo

Last Tuesday evening, a horrific North Carolina motorcycle crash left a father and son dead in Burke County.

According to the North Carolina Highway Patrol, 39-year-old Amie Jo Skeen has been arrested for DWI and felony hit-and-run in conjunction with the accident. Patrol officers said that a vehicle (presumably Skeen’s) driving on Airport Rhodhiss Road “sideswiped the motorcycle and kept going. Moments later, according to investigators, the car smashed head-on into a second motorcycle.” The people on the first motorcycle, fortunately, did not die, but they did apparently suffer injuries. Steven and Kevin Moody of Connelly Springs were driving second motorcycle, when the vehicle hit and killed them. Reports do not say whether any factors may have complicated the accident. For instance, were the Moody’s wearing helmets or not? What blood alcohol concentration (BAC) did the DWI driver allegedly have? Etc.

The North Carolina Highway Patrol said that the minivan driver “kept going for about half mile before pulling into a wooded area, possibly to hide the vehicle. But a witness had followed the vehicle after the crash and led troopers to the driver.”

Skeen’s reaction to the arrest was probably legally problematic, if the reports are correct. The troopers arrest her in a wooded area near the road shortly after the fatal crash. Skeen allegedly kicked a WSOC TV reporter who tried to ask her questions. Skeen also allegedly told the TV reporter that she was high on drugs and thus could not have been driving her car: “I couldn’t have been driving. I was too high.”

Skeen is no stranger to the criminal courts. According to records, she has multiple convictions for driving with a revoked or suspended license. In the late 90s, she was arrested and convicted of robbery with a dangerous weapon. In 2007, she got convicted of a charge of a felony cocaine possession.

While it’s important not to rush to judgment, especially simply reading about a North Carolina motorcycle accident case online or watching a TV report, elements of the report definitely suggest that Skeen will likely have her hands full, legally speaking.

However, no matter how “convincing” the details of your case might seem to an outsider – or how many compelling facts you have or arguments you have in your side – you nevertheless still must often fight and win a case using effective legal methods, excellent research, methodical argumentation, etc. So if you or someone you care about has been hurt in a North Carolina motorcycle accident, it may behoove you to connect immediately with an efficient, highly rated and respected North Carolina motorcycle accident law firm.

More Web Resources

Fatal DWI hit and run motorcycle accident in North Carolina

WSOC TV reporter kicked by DWI suspect in fatal accident